Male and female he created them • on souls and twin flames

In the spirit world, love comes from the soul and falling in love is with the other's soul. In our world where there is spirit and matter, falling in love is not only with the soul but also with the body, appearance, form. The spirit comes from the unity where everyone loves everyone unconditionally, and there is no difference between one and the other because everyone is one. In the material world, everyone is special and there are many conditions for love.

They say that in the creation of man, he created them male and female. One soul of the first primitive man. Then he separated Adam and separately from him Eve, and put half of the soul in each of them. The legend says that since then they have been looking for each other and hope to be reunited again, to become one as whole as they were when their spirits soared in the high gardens of the days of creation.

From that first primordial man, that soul that split into male and female, all human beings were created at different times, and a situation arose that the second half was not necessarily born in the same era in which the first half was born and it is difficult to find him. Since then, humans connect and disconnect and fall in love and let go, and the desire to find the one or the other that is exact and suitable like half to half, continues to set the wheels of love in motion.

look for the other half

The phrase soul mate describes your perfect other half. Sometimes this feeling arises when you meet someone, and in many cases the feeling changes after entering into a relationship.

Maybe you don't believe there is such a thing, you don't think it's possible to find a soul mate, someone who completes you with such perfect precision, one that you just fall in love with and he's in you at first sight forever. Maybe you think it's a fairy tale, but you'll agree that it could have been wonderful.

On the other hand, from an innovative perspective, the twin soul does not necessarily have to be a member of the opposite sex, and become a daughter or partner. It can be a teacher, a good friend, maybe even someone you just heard about and feel is important in your life, like a role model. Even if the relationship is not maintained for many years, it is deep, important and has a positive effect on your life.

A pairing without spiritual obligations

According to the wisdom of Breslav, a single man cannot make amends and fulfill his soul's calling unless he marries, and so they said:

As long as the soul is in heaven, it is composed of male and female, but when it descends to the world, half is embodied in a man and half in a woman. The thing is that each of them is reincarnated into a body at a different time and only righteous people get that the two original and exact halves meet and get married. Only a righteous man and a righteous woman receive a pairing from heaven.

And what about all the other human beings, I ask, and they say that this is exactly what the canopy and the sanctifications are for, which connect the man to his wife in three stages, according to soul, spirit and soul, and then they receive a united spiritual structure as if they were twin souls.

"If a man and a woman get married, they must complete and carry out together the correction that is destined for them by my name," they say in Breslav. "Until he marries, the man will not be able to fulfill his spiritual potential and make the correction for which he came into the world."
And if there is difficulty in finding the right partner? "The meaning is that a man has a spiritual debt, and he needs to fix it so he can find his partner. Whereas a marriage that comes easily means there are no debts."

be worthy of connection

In the writings of the Holy Ari, the Gate of Reincarnation, it is told about a man who sinned and was forced to reincarnate again and again and look for his other half, the woman he will marry and complete the repair. His other half, the woman, completed her repair and he continued to reincarnate until she received special permission from above to return to her body A woman so that he can finally finish his process.

In other cases, when a person marries and does not complete his spiritual duties, a relationship full of arguments and fights is created. In Breslav they say that the negative energies of the spiritual debt create the conflicts because the man is not worthy of connection with his other half. And for this it is said that the pairing of a person is as difficult as the splitting of the Red Sea. Breslav recommends praying, asking for help from heaven, so that the person will be able to find his match.

Many believe that there is only one or the other meant for them, and they look for them on dating sites, through friends, with numerologists, astrologers, card readers and communicators. "When will I meet my intended", is a question I hear almost every day. Sometimes a deep infatuation seems as if it was in front of the original soul mate, and precisely then the heartbreak when the relationship ends, the disillusionment that usually comes a long time later, illuminates the understanding that it is not a soul mate but a deep and strong love.

Just like you but different

In the first stages of falling in love, each of the parties feels wonderful about himself, feels worthy, desirable, beautiful and significant. From the enlightened experience of the beginning of falling in love, it seems that there is a lot of similarity between the couple and everything is conducted in a good spirit and striving for happiness. The expectation is that the partner will be the other half, fill in the gaps and fulfill the needs.

Over time, infatuation turns into love, and the difference is revealed. Sometimes the difference between the couple promotes the relationship and allows each of the parties to develop in their field, and at other times the difference between the two makes the path to happiness difficult and does not allow for a pleasant marital experience.

Mirror Soul

In recent years a new expression was born: Mirror Soul, a mirror soul, one in which you are reflected almost exactly. The soul of a person who is not your relative and the feeling is that he is an almost perfect copy of you.

Rachel Says that at the beginning of her relationship with Eli, she had a feeling of complete compatibility. They believed in the same things, loved the same foods and worked in similar fields. Both were active in the gym, both followed a healthy diet, both loved tradition and maintained a good relationship with their parents.  

This is how she says:

We were like one person. The same ideas, similar thoughts, similar feelings about all sorts of things, even parts of our history and childhood were similar. We were so similar that people thought we were brothers. We liked the same things, we completed each other's sentences, we thought of the same songs when we wanted to listen to music. This is not a normal situation. I've had relationships in the past that had shared spaces, but here it's as if we were one person that split into a man and a woman.

A soulmate, the perfect complement

In English "Soul mate" is a soul mate, the perfect complement. A person who has a deep and unique spiritual connection with us, a special mental connection. People who have such a soulmate feel as if they are two parts of the same whole, providing emotional support, and making each of the two grow and develop as a person as well as grow in their field, thanks to the deep connection. In many cases, this is a romantic description, but it may be used to describe a spiritual connection with a friend, girlfriend or other person with whom one experiences a deep connection and great trust, without there being a romantic connection.

There are a variety of studies in the field of psychology and society that examine the phenomenon of powerful love, the one who feels it feels as if he has found his soul mate. The studies reveal that the attraction is not only based on a person's appearance or understanding, but also based on a smell, according to the sound of a voice, according to an experience that is called energetic, in the presence of the other.

Orna Says that when she first saw the man who later became her husband, she felt a chill all over her body. "It was physical. As if a wave of energy coming from him washed over me and at that moment I knew he would be my husband." Then they met, and after the courtship period they moved in together. "It's not that we didn't fight, there were arguments, but something in his voice, in his presence, something in his energy left me with him as if I knew we were meant for each other. He felt it too, once I even heard him tell a friend about it, how when he saw me for the first time, he got excited And hoped that I would agree to deepen the acquaintance."

Combinations of souls

Cults have sprung up in the world that proclaim themselves to connect a person to his soulmate, but it turned out for those who were there and managed to leave, that these are abusive processes whose role is to glorify the cult leaders at the expense of the participants. The movie "Twin Flames" on Netflix brings testimonies from these cults.

When I talk about twin souls, I do not mean in any way or by way of cults, nor the lies and coercion that takes place there. I am talking about the freedom to love and the ability to find the right partners for the way of life we ​​have chosen for ourselves. After all, it can be wonderful to find your soulmate, to meet someone who complements you in the most wonderful way possible, someone who will always love, who will always be both sensitive and strong, both individualistic and sociable, who will be beautiful, smart and with a sense of humor, someone who will make you feel perfect.

The surprise is that you can have more than one soul mate, maybe even more than two. When I asked you My If she met her soul mate, she said: "I have met quite a few in my lifetime. Each time I fell in love, I felt it was the right and true thing, and maybe it really was for a certain period, but then another soul mate arrived for one of us and the relationship ended."

Rabbi Leitman From the organization "Kabbalah Laam" he wrote that spiritual love is between twin souls and is ideal but is almost never found when the soul is in the body. "The spiritual roots determine everything, and the pairings depend on the quality of the spiritual roots. There is a general soul, within which there are many private souls, which exist in all kinds of combinations with each other. Their combinations determine the approximation, separation and movement." Perhaps this explains the feelings of Shelley, who met the soul mates who were integrated in different levels of affinity with her, but were not the original twin.

First in a dream and then in reality

Catherine Horst, an American writer, explored another topic in the field of love that is called twin flames. The basic claim of "twin flames" is that the one soul, meaning one half of a twin flame, splits into two different bodies. There is no doubt in this case, the meeting between the two will be powerful. The twin flame is your very same soul, which was in one body in some incarnations, and is now split into two bodies - you and the other flame.

It's a rare occurrence, love with an irrational intensity. Stronger than any love and also more painful than any love. It's really an obsession, and it always hurts both sides. When you meet your twin flame there will be some things that will just surprise you: your intuition sends you to the same places, you feel each other, you have the same diseases and allergies, you dream the same dreams.

You feel safe when you are together, allowing yourself to be you without masks from the first moment. The twin flame is a rare opportunity to learn about yourself and make a significant leap of consciousness. Your twin flame shows the places where you need to grow, fix, create change. This relationship can be terrible because it requires you to constantly look inside and out, to find the places that require improvement and there are no discounts.

Horst claims that if you have a twin flame, it will come first in dreams and only later in reality. It can be a short and impressive meeting that leaves you thinking, or a connection, an actual relationship that penetrates very deeply and very quickly. This relationship is controversial. Each part of the flame wants to decide for the other part, each one brings the experience gained during their incarnations, and this leads to a very painful crisis.

One side begins to press, to be obsessed, to agonize over the separation and the other side suffers from this and moves further away. At this stage, Hors says you need to be gentle, let go and let the energy relax. It's a stage of surrendering to fate's order to move away and then come back and unite the flames. The egoless devotion to the unity of the soul. The end of the process is a feeling of balance, fair partnership, pleasure and perfection. This is the stage where the release of the connection, the disconnection, is a lever for great personal growth of each of the parties, who embraces the separation as much as he embraced the connection.